Class 9 English Main Course Book Unit 6 Children Chapter 4 Life Skills
1.Read the following and share your feelings with the class?
INTROSPECT: Realize Your Potential-I.
Self Awareness: Knowing your strengths and weaknesses will help you seceded.
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Summary of the extract: This is a discussion about the importance of self awareness. There is an interesting example of a girl who is not aware of her strengths and weaknesses. If proper introspection is done, we can know about our strengths and weaknesses. This gives us confidence to achieve something, with or without someone help
2.Copy the worksheet in your notebooks and work in pairs to complete the worksheet to know all about yourself. This will enable you to discover your hidden strengths, work on your weakness, and develop your personality.
Johari Window Work Sheet?
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Now transfer the points from the Johari Window activity work sheet to the table given below.
- Common points listed by student and his partner in Column A and C - to be put in Open Self
- The qualities pointed out by the other person (not the student himself) - to be put in Blind Self
- The qualities pointed out by the students (Column A) but unknown to other person - to be put in Hidden Self
- Qualities unknown to student and his partner but which might be known to teacher or some body else may be put in unknown self
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3.Several youngsters have problems in dealing with their parents. With your partner, discuss the difference in views and complete the table below. Sometimes there may be no contradiction between the two views.?
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4.In pairs, choose one topic from the table in Question 3. Imagine that you and your parents are expressing your views on the topic. Use your notes from the table and write the dialogue that would take place. Make it funny! Share your dialogue with the rest of the class?
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Mummy : Rahul, how many times do I need to tell you to keep your table tidy
Rahul : Mummy, it OK. Dont worry I can find my things easily that way. .
Mummy : I will throw your low waist jeans in dustbin.
Rahul : Mummy, this is the latest fashion. Why are you living in Jurassic age?
Mummy : Rahul, say Namaste to your chacha.
Rahul : Namaste! Chachaji.
Mummy : Rahul, no more IPL matches before you finish your homework.
Rahul : Mummy, this is an interesting match. Why dont you write an absent note for my class-teacher for tomorrow
Rahul : This summer vacation let go to Shimla, instead of going to our village.
Mummy : Keep your mouth shut up! You need to know your grandparents well. This is our culture.
5.Ravi has a problem, so he asks his friends for advice. Read the conversation below and underline the expressions that are used for giving advice. (This could be done as role-play)?
Ravi: My neighbours play very loud music, which disturbs me when Im studying.
Mohan: Why dont you try persuading them to turn down the volume
Shiela: If that doesnt work, you could think of changing your study time.
Rahim: Why should Ravi have to do that? He really ought to report such an antisocial behaviour to the police.
Shiela: Before taking any drastic action like that, I would advise you to sort it out amicably with your neighbours.
Rahim: If I were you, I would play my music even louder!
Mohan: That wont solve his problem. Ravi, I think you should ask your father to take it up with your neighours
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Ravi: My neighbours play very loud music and it disturbs me when Im studying
Mohan: Why dont you try persuading them to turn down the volume?
Shiela: If that doesnt work you could think of changing your study time.
Rahim: Why should Ravi have to do that? He really ought to report such a whimsical behaviour to the police.
Shiela: Before taking any such drastic action, I would advise you to sort it out amicably with your neighbours.
Rahim: If I were you, I would play my music even louder!
Mohan: That wont solve his problem. Ravi, I think you should ask your father to take it up with your neighbours.
6.In groups of four, use the language used in Question 5 to give advice in the following situations:?
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Problem 1: My parents dont give me any pocket money. This embarrasses me when Im with my friends.
Advice: Try to explain the situation to your parents with a cool mind. Dont argue with them. They will understand your needs. After all, they are your parents.
Problem 2: I stole some money from my mother purse. I feel very guilty, and I dont know what to do.
Advice: It is good that you are realizing your blunder. It is best to tell everything to your mother and say sorry. She will love you even more for your honesty
Problem 3: I lied to my friend. This has spoils our friendship. I would like to make amends, but I dont know how
Advice: The best way is to talk to your friend to clear confusion. Say sorry to him. Your friendship will be stronger from now on
7.You are on the editorial board for the column Your Problems in The Teenager magazine. You have received these two letters asking for your advice. (They appear to have come from the same family. Dear Helpful Avanti My fifteen year old son is crazy about film music. He seems to be wasting all his pocket money on these meaningless CDs. He cannot even study without this noise. Though he is good at studies, I remain disturbed about this new obsession. There are all kinds of strange-looking posters on the walls of his study and he always wears those gaudy T-shirts and faded patched jeans. Also, he is very fond of Junk-food. I fear he is breaking all links with our culture. What shall I do?
A bewildered father
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Reply to the first letter:
Dear Sir
You should appreciate that he has developed interest in something useful. He is utilizing his pocket money in pursuing his hobby. Maybe, you can make him to join some music classes. The fact that he is good at studies should make you proud. At his age he ought to plaster his walls with posters which may look weird to you. You should try to understand the taste for his age. Try to befriend your son and try to update yourself with changes in culture. His letter says that sometimes he listens to classical music as well. So your help and proper guidance are the right steps in the right direction.
Avanti
Reply to the second letter
Hi Buddy
Try to explain the meaning- of the latest music to your father and to explain your passion for this. Whenever your father is at home try to play music in soft voice. This is a good way to respect his feelings. Share your room, your thoughts and your passions with your father. This will help him to understand you better. Hope your father doesnt wear Indian outfits, like dhoti kurta and wears pants and shirts instead.
They are also western clothes.
Junk food is not good for health. Try to minimize its consumption. Whatever you do make your father a party to it. He will be your best friend.
Avanti